About 4 years after my divorce, I came to Christ! He changed me! He changed my heart! I went through the Healed and Set Free Bible study and let the Lord powerfully move in my life. I began learning about Jesus' forgiveness of my sins (and there are many!). I began learning that He wants me to forgive others! During this Bible Study, the Lord took me to a place of complete surrender to Him! He wanted all my pain, anger, grief and hatred! He wanted it all!

So, I left it all at the Feet of Jesus!! This Bible Study follows God's Word with insight and instruction so we can live Healed and Set Free lives.

Everyday, I use the tools learned in the study. I have forgiven both of these people for the choices they made that affected my life. They went on to marry each other and have another child together. Over the years, my son and I have prayed for them, their family and their marriage.

I chose to live according to the Lords command and have been blessed beyond measure! Healed and Set Free helped me get on the right path in knowing what to do with the all the pain!

Thank you, Tammy, for letting the Lord use your pain and suffering to minister to others!

Relationships with people I loved deeply were broken and lost. My response was to turn within and just cope with it the best I could. I was NOT experiencing the abundant life that God tells me is available to me in His Word.

When I went through this study for the first time, the scriptures I had read many times before came alive. For the first time I really understood what it meant to be free. I was able to forgive those that abused and hurt me. To forgive those that had walked out of my life. God redeemed the ashes of my life for beauty! I AM FREE!

Some twelve years ago I began leading a HSF group study in my home and have never stopped. There are always women waiting to get into the next group. We live in a world full of hurting women that NEED to hear the hope there is in Christ Jesus.

We CAN be free from the pains and shackles of the past! There is not greater gift than forgiveness of sins through Jesus Christ. How beautiful it is to forgive others as we have been forgiven...that is truly living the ABUNDANT LIFE! Praise you Lord for freedom!

Thank you Lord for Tammy and all the women that are willing to be transparent with their lives so others can be free!

22 month-old cousin and she died in my arms at the hospital, and I became pregnant at the age of 15 and gave birth to my beautiful daughter named McKenna.

I had always shoved my feelings along with everything else in my "Junk Drawer." 


I married my husband is June of 2002 had another daughter Kyrsten in August of 2002 and then had my third daughter Keyana in 2003. They were only 11 months apart.

By time I had my last daughter I was going through Post Partum depression along with me was my "Junk Drawer" I had been on a rampage for months, I remember one time my husband calling home from work asking, "Do I need to come home, are you going to hurt the kids?" One morning I got my 5-year-old daughter up for school and she wouldn't get dressed and it set me off. I smacked her across the face! I feel to my knees crying and she says to me not ever knowing who God is or anything about praying, "Mommy we need to pray!" So we did!

That same day my husband said, "We need God in our home, in our marriage, and in our lives!" We started to go to church my husband and I both became BORN AGAIN! That's when I got into the bible study "Healed and Set Free!" It gave me the tools to see, forgive, and just let go!

I remember coming home from study and that night we talked about forgiveness and it's about you and God not the person who has sinned against you, and I truly forgave my parents, my brother, my aunt's boyfriend and most of all myself. I came home and took a bath and the water was so soft and I could breathe and cry for joy it was unlike anything I had ever felt. Many nights my husband did the study with me, so through Gods love and this study my marriage was mended! Praise be to God!

There is nothing God can't do! I was filled with so much hate, anger, and always felt yucky but I am healed and set free from all of it! Thank you for letting me share!


I did not know how to apply God’s word to my personal life. It seemed to me that there were no other Christians with my bad attitudes and feelings. I did not SEE my negative, judgmental, and unforgiving thoughts as sin.

I felt like this Jesus/Christian thing just did NOT work or make me happy. I chose my own way of dealing with my hurts and disappointments, adultery. I thought another man would make me happy. I was WRONG. My life began a downward, self-absorbed cycle. I was tearing down my house with my own hands. I was trying to ease my pain – but instead my pain became much worse. I fought with my kids and husband. I did not provide meals or a welcoming environment in our home. Me, me, me, consumed my thoughts. I was so tormented; I could not sleep at night and ended up in a mental hospital. It was there that I finally turned again to the Lord.

At that time, I was not familiar with Healed and Set Free Ministry’s “Tools to Become Set Free – SEE, GIVE, FORGIVE, FORGET, and BECOME SET FREE”. Looking back, what God showed me is the same basic principles. He led me to: 1) recognize and acknowledge my negative thoughts. I had to get alone with God to vent and cry – telling Him all. 2) Confess and repent all of my sinful thoughts, actions and emotions. In that process the Lord gave me the strength to unconditionally forgive, - myself and others. 3) I gave it all over to God, surrendering my will and asking Him to help me see and obey His will. And, 4) I needed to read God’s word daily renewing my mind with the truth.

I felt Jesus was showing me to confess my sin of adultery to my husband, and to ask him to forgive me. It was soooo hard to trust Jesus and tell my husband. I thought my husband would divorce me and take our two children. He had every right. I knew the Bible said divorce was okay if adultery was involved. I was depressed, lost, and I really felt like I was crazy. I knew trusting Jesus had to be better than how I felt at the time, so I finally surrendered to His will. The day I told the truth to my husband, he took me home from the mental hospital and we began a new life together.

Jesus has restored my sanity, marriage, and relationship with my children. He has truly made something beautiful out of my life. Daily for the past 17 years I have tried to see, give, forgive, forget and be set free. When I first completed the Healed and Set Free Bible Study I knew God was giving me confirmation that I needed to be honest with Him every day and apply His word to my life. I try to tell Jesus, daily, all my feelings and ask Him to make me obedient to Him. I never, ever, ever want to lean on my own understanding again. Jesus has given me peace, a good marriage and a purpose for living. The Bible says God shows no partiality. What Jesus has done for me he will do for you. As I facilitate Healed and Set Free Bible Studies, I see many women begin to live victorious lives. Hebrews 9:14 says the blood of Jesus will cleanse our conscience from sin, so we may serve the living God.